My boyfriend was married to a horrible abusive woman who verbally and physically abused him, kept him from his friends and family, and nearly destroyed his life. He finally got out and is a very happy man. But I know he still hurts from what happened to him,

What a load of sexist crap!

How about men who are abused and can’t even call for help because the police has been trained to always arrest the man regardless of any evidence at the site (VAWA act)?

How about men who are trapped in marriages from hell and can’t get out because they will be completely ruined, and will never see their kids again!

How about men who can’t see their children because their ex filed fake domestic violence charges!?

Another dangerous myth: Only men commit such violence.

ha ha ha.

streetdoggy
Dont be selfish, bang, bang…and we lose another great dad?

You are very much needed, so dont do anything stupid if things take a turn for the worst.

I did not want to represent my self because i did not know about these law’s, until we filed for Divorce/Custody and than i was shocked.

“sosayus” I believe in equal parenting Time. I think it’s very important for my Child and me.
I never Fought for Primary custody, I will never take my baby from her Mother.

I swear if I am alive no Court and no Police will be able to take my Child before they will kill me.
I set these rules, and i wont change them for anything.
Enough is enough. That will cross my LINE.
I will go all in. If i have to Fight until my last bullet I will.

I hear your pain ’streetdoggy’ no point howlin at the moon…

Next the court is going to divorce you from your child and your money… Your ex is going to make you look like the wife beater from hell… DO NOT GET A LAWYER coz they wont and cant help! You must represent yourself in court. Hope this helps…

Every Psychologist in the World will tell u this:
Mother and Father are equally important to healthy Development of the child Physically and emotionally.
And they Both play a Major role in to making the child ready for Adult life.
Now, every Parent out there who is the Reason why the other Parent is not allowed to be with the CHILD same time as you, than you are the biggest Child abuser.
Shame on you, and don’t look at ur self as some kind of hero, rather than a Terrorist.

“sharonfayfaulkner’ ur wrong….

“mommywifelove” Listen, when a Kid is happy without a Parent, than there is smth Wrong.
1) Parent is bad, He/she made history of bad relationship with the child.
2) The Custody Parent brainwash Kid’s.

Maybe in ur case ur Right, maybe ur dealing with a really bad “FATHER”.
However, 80% of cases is the Mother who use the Kid’s to benefit for her self.
Than after she get’s the Kid’s she Fights to secure her income by turning Kid’s againt the Father.

“sosayus” yes ur 100% correct.

Long Story short: few Criminal Courts later, several thousand$, we went to Trial where the Judge throw all the cases out and she was ANGRY at my EX-WIFE or pretending to be, and she the Judge said: NO CRIME WAS EVER COMMITED.
I won Equal joint Custody of my Daughter later in Family Courts.
Total cost me $30,000, and 9 months out of work, and many many Potentials.
Such as using my CDL with all Endorsements.
Feminist law’s should change.
We need equal law’s. women are abusing these Law’s

You have been arrested for: Child Abuse, (class A felony), Forced Entry, leaving a crime scene, for threatening the Mother etc etc 2 or 3 class a Felonies.
She than filed for Restrain order, that meant i lost all Temporary Visitation Rights with my Child.
I swear to God I have not even seen my Daughter that day, she was sleeping in another room. Since my ex wife look really Good, Police were more busy trying to be nice to her than knowing the Truth.They just told me that they DON’T believe me

Police asked for my Name/last, I said yes sir that’s me, he said why don’t u come here and Explain.
I went there, and they told me why I removed a necklace from my Daughter and I had threatened the Mother.
I told them that i left at around 8:00 or 8:15 pm, because we were not agreeing in Child Custody and that I have an attorney who represent me in child custody case.
He said: We don’t believe you anything u say put ur hands behind ur back, first time ever getting questioned by police.

Continue…
Feb,15,2009, at 7:35 pm, My ex Wife called me and Invited me at her House to Talk about trying to reach an Agreement on Child Custody and if u like to eat, she said she had the food ready.
I said sure, I was happy to talk about trying to agree on child custody.
After 15 min, i left due to the Conversation getting heated.
at 9:30 pm Police called me and asked me why i left the Crime scene!?!?! I said Sir u may have the wrong phone Number. CONTINUE

My nose have been broken twice in the same place. My ex-wife Punched me while going through Child custody Fight.
I did not call Police due to not wanting to complicate Child Custody case, fearing that My Daughter may be taken away from me.
After she punched me, I threatened with Police she than claimed ” She feared me, and she acted in self defense”.
Knowing femenist law’s out there, calling Police would have not done me any good. It would just Complicated my Child Custody case.

0:59 lol

This reporter is idiotic. Who said the abused is the woman? Why is it presumed that the woman is the one that is getting beaten on. It’s already been proven that women abuse men just as much. This pisses me off a great deal. I also hate that governments have to meet targets they set themselves to decide if they are helping women or not (no such schemes exist for men) and so in doing so encourage more women to claim abuse. Abuse parameters how include single cases of shouting or swearing.

Men are being stalked through the courts. The abuser is the woman who cries wolf…

The more women ‘lie’ up front the better it is for them… itsn’t that what you mean?

Alleged domestic violence is the weapon of choice, because it pitts the woman against the man and the courts against the man, who then has to pay all his money to lawyers and child support. Win win…

The secret is out, go do something with your hair…

Look at the statistics, 9 out of 10 cases in Family court are legitimate cases of violence and abuse & a small 1% are false allegations. International stats also support that violence is a gendered issue. Children need two parents whom both have equal power in the relationship to make decisions about their lives.

my kids are happier when their father is not around. i never talk bad about him cuz i been through as a child and i will not put my kids through that. when his name is mentioned my kids get so angry they start breaking things, hurting themselves, they don’t do their school work or listen in school, and they isolate themselves from everyone else. so for kids who go through this they are better WITHOUT that parent who is doing this to them. its not right. and no child should go through this!!

im going through this with my ex now. it needs to stop cuz all it does is hurt the children. in my experience some child are better without the abuser in their life. and yes some kids are better without the other parent. kids do need both parents but not when they are the ones getting hurt. my kids have mental problems now cuz of their father. he shows up and pays child support when he feels like and it only hurts the kids. now with that the kids are better without the father.

Women pull that stunt all the time to build a custody case. IF truly abused fine, go get help, but it is sick when you do it because “I GAVE BIRTH”. Remember children NEED both parents. You so-called single mothers amaze me!!

Dont feel guilty. Take care of your child. THe IDEA that kids are ok without a dad is CRAZY on your part. Sounds like you BOTH need therapy!!